tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31707575.post7893602202138594069..comments2024-03-27T02:42:36.808-07:00Comments on stitchintime: And off she went....claudiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16572555442321120647noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31707575.post-80649526744465225662008-01-01T14:00:00.000-08:002008-01-01T14:00:00.000-08:00I don't know how you're holding it together Claudi...I don't know how you're holding it together Claudia. I'd be a right mess by now.<BR/><BR/>I'm hoping it all has a happy ending. Coming over instead of having the mail posted is a good sign, it seems to me.The Silver Thistlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08195004472008307994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31707575.post-63469360824908582012008-01-01T13:09:00.000-08:002008-01-01T13:09:00.000-08:00I'm so sorry, I wish it could get better immediate...I'm so sorry, I wish it could get better immediately. However, it is going to take time. As Kim-d said though, it is not you, this is her and she needs to work through it. I agree with what she said, that Binks calling and then saying she'd stop by to pick up the letter could be seen as encouraging. Hang in there, lots of warm wishes headed your way. Here's hoping that 2008 is a better one for you both. {{hugs}}<BR/>Suestitcherwhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11795367484568298951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31707575.post-21768958228846909082007-12-31T07:20:00.000-08:002007-12-31T07:20:00.000-08:00Say it with me..."This is not about what I did wro...Say it with me..."This is not about what I did wrong, this is about her perception of things." I truly believe that this is kind of a universal thing, Claudia. Moms blame themselves for things that aren't about them, and lots of young adult daughter don't say or do anything to dissuade their Moms from taking the guilt trip. It's easier than facing up to your own problems, when you're 20. And she called. I'll bet she had to do some serious talking to herself before she dialed, to get herself sounding so disconnected. The call was about so much more than if she got any Christmas money. And she's stopping by the get the letter? Hmmm. Now, bearing in mind that I don't know your daughter and don't know the history, but it just seems like, feeble as they are right now, overtures might be made??? I look forward to hearing more of the story. Even though the telling hurts, it WILL feel better eventually. Just know you're not alone. <BR/><BR/>(((((BIG NEW YEAR'S EVE HUG)))))<BR/><BR/>LUVYAMUCH!!!!kim-dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11650811256788756378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31707575.post-54191551661780814592007-12-30T21:06:00.000-08:002007-12-30T21:06:00.000-08:00At times, Binks as an adult sounds like my sister....At times, Binks as an adult sounds like my sister. I can tell this is really wearing on you!<BR/><BR/>Despite the fact that your heart is breaking don't forget that at some point in every day there's aways something that can make you smile.Dani - tkdchickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08304768491192625890noreply@blogger.com